Sheryl Sanderg "Why we have to too few women leaders"

http://www.ted.com/talks/sheryl_sandberg_why_we_have_too_few_women_leaders

What are the messages we need to tell ourselves? What are the messages we tell the women that work with and for us? What are the messages we tell our daughters?

When I dropped her off at preschool, did that whole hugging-the-leg, crying, "Mommy, don't get on the plane" thing. This is hard. I feel guilty sometimes. I know no women, whether they're at home or whether they're in the workforce, who don't feel that sometimes. So I'm not saying that staying in the workforce is the right thing for everyone.

My talk today is about what the messages are if you do want to stay in the workforce, and I think there are three. 

One, sit at the table.

Two, make your partner a real partner. 

And three, don't leave before you leave.

"Sit at the table. Come on, sit at the table," and they sat on the side of the room.

 it matters a lot. Because no one gets to the corner office by sitting on the side, not at the table, and no one gets the promotion if they don't think they deserve their success, or they don't even understand their own success.

"Believe in yourself and negotiate for yourself. Own your own success."

success and likeability are positively correlated for men and negatively correlated for women.

We've got to get women to sit at the table.

Don't leave before you leave. Stay in. Keep your foot on the gas pedal, until the very day you need to leave to take a break.

-start out 시작하다

  :let's start out by admitting we're lucky

-But all that aside그것보다도

 :But all that aside, we still have a problem, and it's a real problem. And the problem is this: Women     are not making it to the top of any profession anywhere in the world.

-non-profit 비영리적인

-personal fulfillment 자아 실현

-women's room 여자화장실

  :I realized he doesn't know where the women's room is in his office.

-pitched a deal

-equivalent 동등한

-drop out 빠지다

   :I am convinced, is that women are dropping out. 여자들은 빠져있다

  :When I dropped her off at preschool

-flextime 근무시간자율제

-outset 시초,발단

 :Now, at the outset,

-sophomore 대학2년생

-systematically

-underestimate 낮게평가하다

-negotiate 협상하다

-attribute ~의 덕분으로보다

 :men attribute their success to themselves, and women attribute it to other external factors.

-external 외부의

-likeability 호감성

-correlated 연관성, 상관성

 :success and likeability are positively correlated for men and negatively correlated for women

-fit into …에 꼭 들어맞다, 적합[적응]하다; 어울리다

 :How am I going to fit this into everything else I'm doing?"

-maternity 임부인상태

-too far in advance 너무 먼저

 :Don't make decisions too far in advance, particularly ones you're not even conscious you're making.